Blow His Mind: 7 Blowjob Tips

Keep Your Rhythm

This may be the most important part. If your blowjob is all over the place it can be difficult to create and sustain the sensation to get him hard, let alone bring him to orgasm. If you’re creating confusion instead of excitement, your rhythm might be off! This definitely doesn’t mean you should do your best impression of a metronome, just make sure you’re sticking to a pattern enough that he gets the full sensation before switching it up again. As he gets more excited you can start trying more techniques (as outlined below) or alternating speeds, but pay attention to what he responds well to. 

Don’t Be Afraid to Get Wet

Don’t be afraid to use saliva to cut the friction- be safe, don’t chafe! Alternatively, use some flavoured lube to help you out and get things moving. It’s important to note though that flavoured lube generally isn’t safe for penetrative sex, so be careful if this isn’t the ‘main event’.

Use Your Hands

Let your hands help! Put the tip in your mouth and your hands around the base, and move them up and down together. If the shaft is wet enough start moving your hands up and down the penis along with your mouth from the base of the shaft all the way up to the head. If you’re feeling advanced, rotate your hands in opposite directions as your move up and down. You can also use your hands to take over if you need to come up for air. 

Suck – Don’t Blow

Blowjob is a misnomer- seal your lips around the shaft and suck to create a vacuum around his penis. Not only will this feel great, it’ll help him get harder (and more sensitive) faster. Furthermore, this vacuum effect pulls in the cheeks, increasing the contact of surface area that provides more stimulation! Sucking is a great way to get him hard if you’re incorporating a blowjob as part of foreplay, but it also makes him more sensitive. So it’s also great if you want the BJ to be the star of the show!

Listen

Pay attention to the reception you’re getting! The easiest way to tell if you’re doing a good job is for your partner to tell you. Not all guys are verbal with their affirmation, so other cues are heavy breathing and body language. If you’re not sure if his world is being rocked, don’t be scared to ask. Every guy is different and no two will want the exact same combo of rhythm, suction, speed, etc. Communication is important for all aspects of a relationship and blowjobs are no exception. Don’t be shy to ask for directions. You can even make it sexy by framing is as a sexy-voiced  “you like that” or a “do you want it (slower, faster, etc)?”

Explore

As mentioned above everyone has different tastes, so it might take some experimenting to see what really gets your guy going. Let your hands explore other places on his body and pay attention to the response. Try gently cradling his balls with your other hand, or running your nails against his chest and hips. If he doesn’t like it no harm done, but if he does now you know! 

Enthusiasm

This may seem obvious, but make sure he knows you’re having fun too! Moaning, touching yourself, and making eye contact are all great ways to make sure he knows that you’re just as into this as he is. This is probably the sexiest view he can imagine, so show it off and work it! 

Any other questions or comments? Feel free to leave them in the section below!

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One thought on “Blow His Mind: 7 Blowjob Tips

  1. Thanks for sharing the tip on not ignoring the balls…I savor that attention. Also, the eye contact and sense that she is enjoying it definitely enhances the experience.

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